你被爱了吗?

Orange-Rose

橙色玫瑰代表了友情与爱情之间的桥梁。

经一事,长一智。所有发生的事,必定有它的理由。所谓塞翁失马,焉知非福,重要的是对待每一件事情的看法和态度。以正面的思想去面对,遗憾的事也就化成良好的教训。

关于爱情,要遇上一个能够让自己朝思暮想,能够感觉安稳,可靠,放心的人并不容易。遇上了真的要懂得珍惜。手指有长短,人也有好坏,绝无十全十美。看人,不要只看短处,要懂得欣赏对方的才华,能量,性格,心的宽度,及思维的深度。要整体的看,而不是只注重于他人的缺点,忽视优点。一直找不能在一起的理由就难免盲目与可行之方。

找爱人,样貌身材虽然重要,但花无百日红。爱情似马拉松,要走的长远,伴侣的内涵很重要。一个处处为你着想,以你的快乐作为起发点,不惜一切的情人很可贵。能够是一位良师好友,看到你的短处而不批评,不畏惧,愿意帮你解围,让你成为最好的自己的那个更是难得的宝;找到了就要争取与他制造幸福的机会。

爱,无形,无影。它的衡量在于牺牲,通过付出显示它的存在。世上的艳花丽草数不尽,栽不完。能够放弃与野花散种,不受诱惑,是一种为爱的牺牲。现代,似乎越来越少人能做得到。

有时候,真的觉得很累。也不知自己的问题出在哪。一番好意总被误解。对他人好,并不一定掏得欢心。品德与持续的付出比不上他人渴望的短暂性欢快感。

我已尽力挚爱与关怀,是时候死心了。虽然很痛,但要再度疗伤,有朝一日再战情感马拉松。就让这部落格里的流言成为对自己的忠告。要找到诚实、踏实的爱人。

快乐不在于拥有的多,而是计较的少。有缘相聚乃难得之事。可能是我上辈子欠的,今世得还债。来的好,散的也好。但愿拿走我一块心的人自重,遇人要小心,前程无量,身体安康,家和圆满,寻得理想中的人生与幸福。

被爱是幸福。能有机会懂得去爱,更幸福。

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3 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Jeffrey
    Oct 24, 2017 @ 05:15:01

    Never give up; you are loved. 🙂

    Reply

  2. Ray N
    Oct 24, 2017 @ 16:19:53

    It’s very hard to meet a right person owning similar interest, characteristics in living. There might have many in this world, but not many that really able to know each others.

    It is so true that appearances will fade by time and only inner values will last and can be preserve. Possibly the person you encounter with is not matured enough in handling relationship and do not know much about love. May be before this she do not really know what is wrong and repeating the mistakes until the time someone who love her pointed out, share opinion and highlighted the problems to her, and realized about it.

    Sorry about your experience to come across with this. If that person was doing it unintentionally, I believe that person will reflecting and return to the right path.

    Reply

    • Darren Ng
      Oct 21, 2018 @ 02:02:51

      Having the opportunity to meet someone who makes your heart beat faster and your world more beautiful, positive and fill with hope is a blessing no matter how it turns out in the end. It takes two hands to clap. I believe that love will naturally guide us to happily do what our heart feels.

      I’m thankful to have shared a very memorable time in my life with someone I cared deeply about. I hope the beautiful memories would help that person feel what love is like, where you know there’s someone there for you, who celebrates your talents and gifts, and that you are not alone in facing the challenges of life and making sense of this world.

      Whatever it is, I wish that person well from the bottom of my heart and will continue to be there to offer support and advice if the need arises.

      Reply

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